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My New Year’s resolution is the same one I have every year. No, not to lose those last stubborn pounds, but so much more meaningful. It comes from Paul’s admonition to “go in grace” and the implication is to keep growing in grace, as well.

Grace is one of those abstract concepts that can be witnessed more easily than explained. It’s when we take the more difficult path in a power that doesn’t come from ourselves, such as forgiving something unforgivable. Grace means we live in unconditional love for others, especially those close to us. (more…)

By : Beth Weikel /January 29, 2017 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on Resolved Read More

By Faith, Not By Sight

“By faith we see the hand of God…A place where peace and justice reign.

We will stand as children of the promise;

We will fix our eyes on Him, our soul’s reward.

Till the race is finished and the work is done,

We’ll walk by faith and not by sight.”

“Comfort, comfort My people, says your God…A voice cries: ‘In the wilderness prepare the way of the Lord; make straight in the desert a highway for our God’” (Isaiah 40:1,3).

As we evaluate where we are at the beginning of a new year, attitude adjustments and course corrections may be necessary. I’ve become aware that waiting is personally wearing me down. Seeking the Lord for things according to His own desires are still awaiting fulfillment. Others are involved, and I have no power over them.

What seems urgent to me requires patient, persistent trust. Sustained belief in One greater than myself can feel like work. To not demand, but ask for grace, is a delicate balance. It’s a growing discipline of knowing where to look and what to receive. My expectations aren’t the point. (more…)

By : Beth Weikel /January 25, 2017 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on By Faith, Not By Sight Read More

New Year’s Plans?

After the shouts of “Happy New Year!” many begin January anticipating a new year of opportunity and blessing. While only natural, some still bear the weight of last year’s burdens. Just because the calendar flipped a page doesn’t mean all our problems and concerns vanish.

When daily routines are overshadowed by tragic or traumatic events, where can we expect optimism, caring, and attention for our needs? And, how do we make room for others’ feelings when we are struggling ourselves?

 Finally, is it possible to prepare for life’s most daunting circumstances before they occur? Because some parts of life are inevitable no matter how we may try to deny it, there must be ways of restoring our sense of stability and well-being. Merely waiting for joy to return is unrealistic. (more…)

By : Beth Weikel /January 23, 2017 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on New Year’s Plans? Read More

From Pastors Interviewed:

When people experience tragedy in their lives, how do they typically respond?

  1. Many who experience loss in life find themselves desperate for answers… Any answers.
  2. People who’ve had more than one loss in quick succession begin doubting if there’s a God who cares.
  3. People dealing with the loss of a home are confused and
  4. don’t know where to turn. If it’s due to a disaster, many times they’ve lost everything they own.
  5. Desperate…disoriented…depressed
  6. People who are suffering often get angry, so they lash out at God and others.
  7. They stop going to church, even though the church is available for help.
  8. When living with a tragedy, family life disintegrates.
  9. People feel guilty and helpless.
  10. Secondary losses can be a significant part of the impact of the initial loss.
  11. Sleep after loss is a challenge. They can’t get adequate rest.
  12. People don’t prepare for loss. It usually takes them by surprise.
  13. People walk around for years with deep pain, not knowing what to do to recover. Quality of life suffers.
  14. When dreams are dashed, hope becomes illusive.
  15. Many walk away from the church and God. It’s been reported that ninety percent will not return to the Lord in any significant way.


By : Dave Weikel /February 17, 2016 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on From Pastors Interviewed: Read More

A Lasting Embrace

For I am convinced that neither death nor life…the present nor the future, nor any powers…nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God…” (Romans 8:38-39)

“Day is done, gone the sun,
From the lake, from the hills,
from the sky,
All is well, safely rest;
God is nigh.”

Memorial Day is not a time for picnics and the singing of patriotic songs in our house anymore. As a Gold Star Mom, I’m reminded more acutely of our separation that weekend. Death is separation, but it doesn’t claim the final victory.

God’s truth and abiding presence are what matters when life events take a dark turn. Not until His very words become personal, at gut level, will we know they’re real. God uses circumstances to make us aware of our need of Him. It’s then we have a choice to fall into His embrace or cry bitter tears and pull away. That decision will have ever-expanding ripples.

What do we choose to believe when disturbing realities intrude into familiar routines of daily life? How are we preparing for those times our faith in a living God will be tested?

Were it not for God’s Spirit bringing assurance of His constant love expressed on the deepest level, and Scripture integrating head and heart, I’m sure I would have been lost in grief. Now, my calling is to honor this God with all my being, and yes, that daily decision is drawing others into His lasting embrace.

“Thanks and praise, for our days,
Neath the sun, neath the stars, neath the sky;
As we go, this we know, God is nigh.”
— Taps

By : Beth Weikel /June 04, 2015 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on A Lasting Embrace Read More

Ambition Transformed

 For those in political life, Washington D.C. represents the apex of power. Some come to it with a well-planned strategy, connections, and all too often, ruthlessness. Chuck Colson, the founder of Prison Fellowship, was one such individual. However, God had His own plan. A redemptive one.

Like Saul, Colson’s cause was misguided and served his own ends. Watergate changed all that, and he entered prison a different man. God’s reach wasn’t obstructed by prison bars, either. He sent others inside the walls to reclaim an unworthy candidate to serve another cause, one he could personally relate to.

 In the intervening years Prison Fellowship, with its vital army of volunteers, has become an international force to turn “hearts of stone into hearts of flesh.” Offenders and their forgotten families have been given another chance at a different ending to their stories. When we lay down our plans and accept His, transformation happens.

 What if Ananias had refused? He knew the chance he was taking, and why should he? Saul was a murderous zealot! But in the end, God’s plans became Ananias’ plans, and Saul’s eyes were opened.


Today’s Scripture: Acts 9 1-18 

 “Then Ananias went to the house and entered it. Placing his hands on Saul, he said, “Brother Saul, the Lord– Jesus, who appeared to you on the road as you were coming here– has sent me so that you may see again and be filled with the Holy Spirit.” 

 Acts 9:17 

Application for Life:  God’s sovereign plans come with preparation and power.

By : Beth Weikel /December 23, 2014 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on Ambition Transformed Read More

Follow in Faith


When was the last time you knew God was asking you to accept a challenge and your initial reaction wasn’t apprehension? Even when we’re sure the prompting comes from God, not a human source, we may wonder, “How can I possibly?”

Though we’d done years of ministry, when this new call came to my husband and I to extend our borders to unfamiliar regions, I know I wasn’t so keen on walking through that door. After all, when the promptings started, we were in the aftermath of several traumatic events in quick succession. Even so, we accepted each opportunity on faith. Then the momentum quickened.

In a few short years God has sent us, with this newly developed message of hope in loss using gifts and talents He’s been honing over decades, to the following, so far:  men’s prisons, a Communist country, a Muslim country, an island steeped in voodoo worship, and disaster sites to meet strangers facing life after tragedy has ripped away their dreams.

God says, “Consecrate yourselves, keep listening to My Spirit, follow wherever I take you–as anointed ones.







I will show you…” Whereupon, we witness Him do His work through us again and again.

Today’s Scripture: I Samuel 16:1-13 

   “…Fill your horn with oil, and be on your way; I am sending you…” But Samuel said, “How can I go? Saul will hear about it and kill me.”   I Samuel 16:1b-2a
Application for Life:  In following after God, the choice is always fear versus faith.


By : Beth Weikel /December 20, 2014 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on Follow in Faith Read More

Miracle Birth

With all the medical advances at our disposal in modern society, it’s easy to lose sight of giving birth as a miracle of life. Women do it every day–in hospitals aided by starched personnel or squatting i n a hut in some forgotten Third-World country. Births are common naked-baby-couple.jpgoccurrences

Yet, when my husband and I were expecting our first baby, we prepared. The doctor discovered my pregnancy during an unrelated appointment one afternoon, and kept advancing the date as he saw the baby’s progress. In reality, we had about six months to get ready for the change of our lives.

Still, the most important part of getting ready was asking God to help us be parents. Neither of us had ones we cared to emulate, so we were a blank slate. “Please, Lord, make us adequate to raise a child. You know our misgivings, but we trust You for all the love and wisdom we’ll need.” God answered that prayer, as we gave those gifts back to Him.

Manoah and his wife gave birth to their special son in the midst of less than ideal surroundings. They were captives of the Philistines when the angel visited them with surprising news. How they responded to their miracle baby had far-reaching consequences for a nation in crisis.

Today’s Scripture: Judges 13:2-5, 24-25

 “The angel of the Lord appeared to her and said, “You are sterile and childless, but you are going to conceive and have a son.”  Judges 13:3

Application for Life: Since our children are gifts from the Lord,  only by depending on Him and releasing them to His care, will we see His miracles.

By : Beth Weikel /December 13, 2014 /By His Design Blog /Comments Off on Miracle Birth Read More

Return…and I’ll Return to You

Have you ever been treated with contempt when you thought you were being gracious? Your heart was right, and the act sacrificial, but those on the receiving end didn’t welcome the gesture. In fact, you were met with hostility. 

When this happens, depending on the parties involved, the sting can be lethal. “How could they have missed the cues,” we wonder? 

Reconciliation is like that. It only works as a two-way street. A hand extended can be slapped away. Though it hurts, the offer needs to be made. 

King Hezekiah sent his priests and messengers throughout Israel and Judah to call the nation back to worship the living God. The hand of God was extended in compassion, but the reaction was mixed. In fact, only a minority responded in kind. The rest laughed.

Christmastime reminds us God’s hand is extended waiting for a response. It’s an invitation to return.

How far away are you? Am I? Is pride, or possibly some other human barrier, the obstacle to receiving what only God can give?


Today’s Scripture:  2 Chronicles 30:5-12

“The couriers went from town to town in Ephraim and Manasseh, as far as Zebulun, but the people scorned and ridiculed them.”   II Chronicles 30:10

Application for Life: Lord, thank You that You made the offer that night in the stable. Help us to recognize Your invitation  and return.

By : Beth Weikel /December 06, 2014 /By His Design Blog, Uncategorized /Comments Off on Return…and I’ll Return to You Read More
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    Dave and Beth Weikel have worked in full-time ministry, business, and public education for over 30 years. God is using their season of loss to provide hope and healing for others.
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